LOVE
Hey Guys, welcome to my blog. Today let's talk about love. Love... What is love? Okay so, we are not going to have an answer just like it had in a movie. Instead, we are gonna talk about love in respect to real life scenarios.
Actually, it is very complicated to define love. Love is the feeling that makes us do things- we thought we weren't capable of. It is the most powerful emotion among all emotions. It is the thirst that makes you strive for the one you love. It is an intangible feeling towards someone or something. Love is an unconditional connection. It is also an uncontrollable urge.
Now, feeling attracted towards someone is a bit different from love.
If you ask for my opinion I would say it is like a sugar in the cake. It is like sun peeping through clouds on a chilly winter morning. It is like finding a hundred rupees old note(of which I had no clue) in a book or in my jeans pocket. Well, don't consider me as a lunatic by this. I told you this because I wanted to take you through the emotions behind these opinions. I bet we have experienced these three things in our daily life. So, you may recall the emotion when you experienced them. Was it divine? Or was it something very soothing?
I guess it was both of them.
So, what if you eat a cake having no sugar in it. Will you enjoy eating? Okay suppose you are used to eat cakes having no sugar or you never ate any such cake that contains sugar in it. Suddenly you are given to eat a cake having sugar. Can you imagine how will you feel then. I think then you will never want to eat cakes without sugar. You won't think about cake lacking sugar contain.
A similar thing happens with love. Once we experience it. We can't live without it. Nobody can escape love. Everybody has to experience it. And now it depends on whom do you love or what do you love. You can feel love for your family, for your belongings, for your friends, towards mankind. It can be for your God, it can be for your career. Because, love is not meant to be between two individuals only.
What is the thing you are most fond of? Is it your mobile? Or your laptop or your watch? It can also be your pet. Imagine if one fine morning you wake up and you find them nowhere. Can you describe the feeling? Can you feel the pain in the middle of your heart? Now imagine what if flowers don't have any color. What if all of them are withered? Won't you feel disheartened. This is love- without getting physically injured you are feeling the pain. This is actually what happens when somebody is in love and then suddenly they are made to live without it. The whole world seems worthless to live.
When two individuals love each other then there should be mutual respect towards each other and for the things related to them. Love is not about bodily fondness and satisfaction. It is when you both don't worry about the differences. When you love someone then you should accept their flaws. It's like knowing the weakness of the person you love without taking the advantage. It's about being the strength of the person you love. That person can be your mom,dad, siblings, your life partner, your friend, roommate or somebody else. In love there should be no place for secrets or lies.
Remember if the person you love, forces you for anything or asks you for telling lies or makes differences between you and your loved ones then that's not love. Because love is kind. You need to move away of that sick feeling. Love can never make you weak. In fact, it gives you a strength.
But it's not necessary that the person you love, should love you back. Everybody have their own choices and we must respect theirs. Those who couldn't get the same love as they did to others, they shouldn't have a feeling of hatred or revenge. As love is a pious feeling.
You know we are experiencing love right from our birth. Oops !!! didn't you know. Yes it is true. Though we never realized but we are being loved. But loved by whom. Oh come on- it's the love your parents feel for you. Look at them. You will see the uncontrollable urge and unconditional connection. They have done so many sacrifices for you without your knowledge. They care for you like nobody else does. They will support you even if the whole world turns back to you. They have been raising you without caring about whether you will love them or not. Because love is kind, honest, loyal and caring. Their world revolves around you. As they have accepted you without any expectations. Now it's your turn to realize that love and love them back. But how?
You can do this by focusing on your career and giving them a life full of pleasure. They gave you their support and time and now you should also do the same. You can show love towards mankind by helping people. Specially those who don't have anyone to love them. Yes, you guessed right. I am talking about orphans and those in old-age home.
We don't need to find love, love finds us. It's just about the right time.You just need to focus on things that are more important at present. Don't worry about love. As I told one can never escape it. And who knows you will find love this way only...
So, till then be happy and take care. If you have any other opinion then please tell me in the comment section below.
Actually, it is very complicated to define love. Love is the feeling that makes us do things- we thought we weren't capable of. It is the most powerful emotion among all emotions. It is the thirst that makes you strive for the one you love. It is an intangible feeling towards someone or something. Love is an unconditional connection. It is also an uncontrollable urge.
Now, feeling attracted towards someone is a bit different from love.
If you ask for my opinion I would say it is like a sugar in the cake. It is like sun peeping through clouds on a chilly winter morning. It is like finding a hundred rupees old note(of which I had no clue) in a book or in my jeans pocket. Well, don't consider me as a lunatic by this. I told you this because I wanted to take you through the emotions behind these opinions. I bet we have experienced these three things in our daily life. So, you may recall the emotion when you experienced them. Was it divine? Or was it something very soothing?
I guess it was both of them.
So, what if you eat a cake having no sugar in it. Will you enjoy eating? Okay suppose you are used to eat cakes having no sugar or you never ate any such cake that contains sugar in it. Suddenly you are given to eat a cake having sugar. Can you imagine how will you feel then. I think then you will never want to eat cakes without sugar. You won't think about cake lacking sugar contain.
A similar thing happens with love. Once we experience it. We can't live without it. Nobody can escape love. Everybody has to experience it. And now it depends on whom do you love or what do you love. You can feel love for your family, for your belongings, for your friends, towards mankind. It can be for your God, it can be for your career. Because, love is not meant to be between two individuals only.
What is the thing you are most fond of? Is it your mobile? Or your laptop or your watch? It can also be your pet. Imagine if one fine morning you wake up and you find them nowhere. Can you describe the feeling? Can you feel the pain in the middle of your heart? Now imagine what if flowers don't have any color. What if all of them are withered? Won't you feel disheartened. This is love- without getting physically injured you are feeling the pain. This is actually what happens when somebody is in love and then suddenly they are made to live without it. The whole world seems worthless to live.
When two individuals love each other then there should be mutual respect towards each other and for the things related to them. Love is not about bodily fondness and satisfaction. It is when you both don't worry about the differences. When you love someone then you should accept their flaws. It's like knowing the weakness of the person you love without taking the advantage. It's about being the strength of the person you love. That person can be your mom,dad, siblings, your life partner, your friend, roommate or somebody else. In love there should be no place for secrets or lies.
Remember if the person you love, forces you for anything or asks you for telling lies or makes differences between you and your loved ones then that's not love. Because love is kind. You need to move away of that sick feeling. Love can never make you weak. In fact, it gives you a strength.
But it's not necessary that the person you love, should love you back. Everybody have their own choices and we must respect theirs. Those who couldn't get the same love as they did to others, they shouldn't have a feeling of hatred or revenge. As love is a pious feeling.
You know we are experiencing love right from our birth. Oops !!! didn't you know. Yes it is true. Though we never realized but we are being loved. But loved by whom. Oh come on- it's the love your parents feel for you. Look at them. You will see the uncontrollable urge and unconditional connection. They have done so many sacrifices for you without your knowledge. They care for you like nobody else does. They will support you even if the whole world turns back to you. They have been raising you without caring about whether you will love them or not. Because love is kind, honest, loyal and caring. Their world revolves around you. As they have accepted you without any expectations. Now it's your turn to realize that love and love them back. But how?
You can do this by focusing on your career and giving them a life full of pleasure. They gave you their support and time and now you should also do the same. You can show love towards mankind by helping people. Specially those who don't have anyone to love them. Yes, you guessed right. I am talking about orphans and those in old-age home.
We don't need to find love, love finds us. It's just about the right time.You just need to focus on things that are more important at present. Don't worry about love. As I told one can never escape it. And who knows you will find love this way only...
So, till then be happy and take care. If you have any other opinion then please tell me in the comment section below.
good one #aditi
ReplyDeleteThanx Rohit. If you wanna give any suggestions then please go ahead
DeleteVery very well defined meaning of love . Though it's very difficult to find selfless love but yes trying to make others happy if one can is an expression of love too. The sugar in a cake is a very good example to relate to , mobile is another good example , no one ca stay without it !
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